First... Don't forget to enter here for the giveaway for 2 go-to party dessert books!
A great theme that spans genders and ages is a Safari party! There are so many fun things you can do - click here for some older (but still fresh!) frosting for Safari parties!
Animal cutouts make this display SO much fun! Not an artist? Buy an inexpensive projector (craft store + coupon!), print out a shape from the internet and project on cardboard or foam board, trace and cut out! Source
Source and tutorial
lollipop sticks insert into oreo cookies, dip in white candy melts... then for the fun! Use that icing you can get in a tube (here) and do zebra stripes! Source found via pizzazzerie